Love. The beating heart of the Gospel. The very essence of our Trinitarian God. To be perfect as our Father is, we must carry this love, grow in this love, and live it out in tangible ways. A love whose mercy is scandalously wide.

When we think of God, of family, of friends, we may feel the warmth of that love that knits together the universe. But how do we embody it in a world where offense feels like currency, and division is the norm? How do we witness to love when we’re met with betrayal, disappointment, or harm?

First, we remember, love is not passivity. Christ never asks us to remain in unsafe places or relationships. True love can uphold strong boundaries. We can release people from our lives while still holding the hope of meeting them one day—whole, free, radiant—in eternity.

Pope Francis reminds us, ‘To love everyone, including enemies, is difficult—I would say it is an art. But an art that can be learned and improved.’

In this world so quick to divide, may we become artisans of love—choosing compassion over contempt, curiosity over judgment. May we dare to love not only those who hurt us, but those who differ from us in every way—politically, culturally, spiritually—and see in them the image of God.

To love our enemies is to reflect the outrageous grace of our God. It’s the slow, courageous journey toward a heart made whole.

By Christine Da Costa